Sep 14, 2012 | Education, Goals & Goal Setting, Matt James - Video, NLP / Neuro Linguistic Programming, Personal Growth
Aloha, A lot of people have asked me, “Does NLP stick? Does NLP create long-lasting change?” In the early days of NLP, people noticed dramatic changes instantaneously. For instance, take a look at Mapping Across (aka Like to Dislike). Mapping Across is a...
Sep 13, 2012 | Education, Matt James, NLP / Neuro Linguistic Programming, Personal Growth
You want to know one of my biggest pet peeves? When someone relatively new to NLP uses one concept to attempt to get others to do something they don’t want to do. Key word “attempt.” (Please keep in mind that my first NLP training was in 1982, so after having been in...
Sep 7, 2012 | Matt James, Matt James - Video, NLP / Neuro Linguistic Programming, Personal Growth
Aloha, Have you ever had a friend, family member or client ask you if NLP and hypnosis were manipulative? In other words, can you get people to do things they don’t want to do with hypnosis? This video offers some powerful reframes to use from a NLP and...
Sep 6, 2012 | Goals & Goal Setting, Matt James, NLP / Neuro Linguistic Programming, Personal Growth, Spirituality
Aloha, I wrote a blog post recently for the Huffington Post. Facebook is great for staying in touch with your friends and family, but many of us use it as a distraction. If you feel like you may be spending too much time on social media, here are some NLP tips on...
Sep 4, 2012 | Goals & Goal Setting, Huna / Hooponopono, Matt James, Personal Growth, Relationships, Spirituality
The changing of seasons reminded me of a couple I worked with. When they split up amicably, I asked the woman, “What are some of the positive things from this relationship you would like to keep for the future?” She answered that she liked the...
