Dr. Matt James is back home in Hawaii after a hurricane just passed through, and his heart goes out to everyone in the community who was impacted. But today Dr. Matt is talking about something different: the people who annoy you.
His take: the people who bug you the most aren’t random. A former student, Kristin, reminded him of something he used to teach, that the people who annoy you the most are here to give you the biggest lessons because they’re actually a mirror for you.
Dr. Matt shares his own example. Getting cut off in line used to set him off until he realized the real issue wasn’t the other person’s behavior, it was his own reaction. If you lose control of your energy, your mindset, or your emotions because of somebody else’s behavior, that’s a clue pointing back at you. It’s not proof that their behavior is universally wrong. Some people brush the exact same thing off without a second thought.
The real question isn’t “why did they do that.” It’s “why does this bother me, and what do I need to work on?”
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Music: “Reach for Success” by Scott Holmes https://scottholmesmusic.com/
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