When faced with negativity, you have 3 options: 1 Fight fire with fire and watch the explosion. Something usually blows. 2 Ignore it and let the fire burn. It will get bigger or diminish over time. 3 Stand in the light and reflect positive back. It keeps you pono and allows the other to see their own reflection. (No choice is better than the other and YOU pick the best option for you.) ~ Dr Matt


  1. What does pono mean?

  2. Thank you for always enlightening me in a positive way. I love it and it has changed my life.
    Blessings Suzanne

  3. Abraham Viljoen says:

    Well I am in a very bad spot at the moment. Doesn’t matter which way I am turning, the fire is there.
    Question : How do I get out of my situation?

  4. Renata Lob says:

    So TRUE 🙂

  5. It is not always the easiest thing to do: to stand in the light and reflect positive back. But is certainly is probably the most effective in the long run.

    • Agreed. The universe can certainly have a way of challenging us when we decide how to react. It helps to remember that perception is projection. 🙂

  6. Linda Wong says:

    Just what I needed right now. Thank you Dr. Matt

  7. Great idea. We do need to be proactive.

  8. I pick the third and with and few friendly comments let those not understanding brew. Thank you for your words of wisdom. A distant an old admirer of your work.

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