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Improving Your Dating Life Using NLP

Improve Your Dating Life Using NLP

  Aloha,  Every now and then, my students ask me how NLP can help them in their dating life. I was recently did a really fun interview with radio host Erin Tillman, who happens to be one of my newest students, on her show The Dating Advice Girl. In this interview, Erin and I discuss how NLP can help […]

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Are You Using Anger – or Is It Using You?

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Aloha, Is it just me or does it seem like there are a lot of angry folks out there? Road rage, screaming politician pundits, feuding celebrities and domestic violence—it’s like everyone’s taking their cues from Big Time Wrestling, pounding their chests and looking for someone to slam around! My newest blog post for Psychology Today, […]

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Is Anger Wrecking Your Relationships

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 “The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present.”  – Barbara de Angelis From my perspective, if you never feel anger, you’re either an ascended master or emotionally numb! Energetically, anger is very close to passion, and it can motivate us to do […]

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The Next Ten Years

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Aloha, The condition of the human spirit is interesting right now. We are on a balance point between the “old” way of thinking and a “new” paradigm in consciousness. Thought leaders are beginning to see this and some are acting on it. Many know that there is no going back. When I began to teach […]

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Embracing the Shadow

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“I really believe that all of us have a lot of darkness in our souls. Anger, rage, fear, sadness. I don’t think that’s only reserved for people who have horrible upbringings. I think it really exists and is part of the human condition. I think in the course of your life you figure out ways […]

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Dancing With Your Shadow

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“I think the healthy way to live is to make friends with the beast inside oneself, and that means not the beast but the shadow. The dark side of one’s nature. Have fun with it and you know, is to accept everything about ourselves.” – Anthony Hopkins Aloha, I love that quote! So many people […]

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Has Debt Become Your Drug of Choice?

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Aloha, When I’m teaching about prosperity and someone brings up the issue of debt, my answer is pretty blunt: In Western culture, spending more than you have is a desperate attempt to mask the pain of not living your life’s purpose. If you are living your life’s purpose, you don’t overspend and you don’t end […]

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Affirmations Suck!

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Affirmations Suck! Before you hit unsubscribe to my blog, take a deep breath and keep reading. Oh, and say something positive to yourself. Good…. And, now that I have your attention, let me also say, I use affirmations to power through many areas of my life. And they work really well! I know that may […]

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Firing Up Your Motivation

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“Ability is what you’re capable of doing. Motivation determines what you do. Attitude determines how well you do it.” – Lou Holtz Enthusiasm. Inspiration. Passion. Motivation. Excitement. Just reading those words, don’t you feel a little more energy in your body and mind? And if you think about their opposite—boredom, cynicism, apathy, numbness—don’t you feel that energy […]

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Step Into Your Purpose-Filled Life

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“It’s not an accident that musicians become musicians and engineers become engineers: it’s what they’re born to do. If you can tune into your purpose and really align with it, setting goals so that your vision is an expression of that purpose, then life flows much more easily.” – Jack Canfield  Aloha, Many of us […]