React vs Respond: What’s the Difference?

React vs Respond: What’s the Difference?

Aloha, A reaction is instant.   It’s driven by the beliefs, biases, and prejudices of the unconscious mind.   When you say or do something “without thinking,” that’s the unconscious mind running the show.   A reaction is based in the moment and doesn’t...
Love… You Complete Me!

Love… You Complete Me!

“Love!! You complete me!!!!”   Let’s be honest, have you ever said this or thought this about someone? If you didn’t maybe you watched a romantic movie and thought for a moment, “That person would so do it for me!” Or maybe you were like me, some crazy romantic...
Turning Fear Into Power

Turning Fear Into Power

Aloha, I remember checking out that book, Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway!, back in the ‘80’s. And while I applaud anyone whose intention is to help others break through barriers to a more fulfilling life, I question whether that’s really the best way to deal with...