I wrote a new blog for Psychology Today called Who’s That Stranger In My Bed?


Many relationship experts suggest that, during a fight, you should continue talking with your partner until your issues are resolved.


But how often does talking for hours on end resolve the issue? Sometimes it does, and other times it leaves both partners reinforcing their anger.


If the connection between you and your partner feels like that of strangers during a fight, then read the 3 questions at the end of this blog. They will help both of you see through any angry projections you may have so you can come to a resolution in a faster, more open, and more loving way.