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Uh Oh! The Shadow is ME!

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“We have met the enemy and he is us!” Walter Kelly, creator of the Pogo cartoon strip In my last blog, I started talking about the Shadow and how to recognize it. The Shadow is everything that reminds you of what you really don’t like or think just isn’t good or right. It’s what you are […]

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Improving Your Dating Life Using NLP

Improve Your Dating Life Using NLP

  Aloha,  Every now and then, my students ask me how NLP can help them in their dating life. I was recently did a really fun interview with radio host Erin Tillman, who happens to be one of my newest students, on her show The Dating Advice Girl. In this interview, Erin and I discuss how NLP can help […]

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Is Anger Wrecking Your Relationships

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 “The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present.”  – Barbara de Angelis From my perspective, if you never feel anger, you’re either an ascended master or emotionally numb! Energetically, anger is very close to passion, and it can motivate us to do […]

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How the Power of Your Mind is Keeping You Broke

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  “The man who never has money enough to pay his debts has too much of something else.” James Lendall Basford Aloha, I’m guessing when Basford wrote that quote, he was saying that a person who can’t pay their debts has too much “stuff” they can’t afford. Maybe that they haven’t learned to budget or […]

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Are You in an Abusive Relationship with Money?

Are You In an Abusive Relationship with Money?

Aloha, Fortunately, as a culture, we’re starting to reject the “inevitability” of abusive relationships. It’s no longer acceptable for parents to beat their kids, or for spouses to verbally, physically or psychologically abuse their partners. We’re cracking down on everyone who perpetrates domestic violence, from football players to politicians. We’re teaching our kids and teenagers […]

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Affirmations Suck!

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Affirmations Suck! Before you hit unsubscribe to my blog, take a deep breath and keep reading. Oh, and say something positive to yourself. Good…. And, now that I have your attention, let me also say, I use affirmations to power through many areas of my life. And they work really well! I know that may […]

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Introducing Dr John!

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Aloha, I’m really excited to introduce to you my new co-trainer Dr John Ryan!Dr John has been on the road co-training with me since January and he’s absolutely rocking it. Here’s a little bit about Dr John: John Ryan, MBA, MSW, PhD is a leading expert on communication, transformation, and business development. John shares his systems and strategies with thousands of […]

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Firing Up Your Motivation

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“Ability is what you’re capable of doing. Motivation determines what you do. Attitude determines how well you do it.” – Lou Holtz Enthusiasm. Inspiration. Passion. Motivation. Excitement. Just reading those words, don’t you feel a little more energy in your body and mind? And if you think about their opposite—boredom, cynicism, apathy, numbness—don’t you feel that energy […]

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Ghosts of New Years Past, Present and Future.

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Aloha, Have you ever heard of the Ghost of New Years Past? Me neither. But I think Dickens’ old story, A Christmas Carol, is a good analogy of how too many of us run our lives: We remember who we’ve been in the past, act it out again in the present, then project it into […]

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Do It Again. And Again.

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  A baseball swing is a very finely tuned instrument. It is repetition, and more repetition, then a little more after that. Reggie Jackson Aloha, In a previous post, I addressed the question I get asked periodically by my NLP and Huna students: “I was doing so well but now I feel stuck. What am I doing […]