Change is Constant. Resistance is Futile

Change is Constant. Resistance is Futile

We’re wired to change and grow. In nature, whatever stops changing and growing begins to dissolve or die. So it is with us. Fortunately, we’re built with an early warning system that tells us when it’s time to change, but how many of us actually listen to it?  ...
You Think You Are Right. Well, So Do I

You Think You Are Right. Well, So Do I

Aloha, “Thinking is the hardest work there is, which is probably the reason why so few engage in it.” —Henry Ford   When I look around, the motto of today’s world seems to be “My way or the highway!” Rather than being curious about others’ views or really...
The Ego Must Die?

The Ego Must Die?

“Man is important in one sense only. He was made in the image of God: That is his importance. He is not important for his body, ego, or personality. His constant affirmation of ego-consciousness is the source of all his problems. -Paramahansa Yogananda   When I was...
How Deep is Your Love?

How Deep is Your Love?

I’m sure by now you’ve seen all kinds of articles telling you how to get ready for Valentine’s Day. Find the perfect outfit, book the perfect restaurant, send the perfect card, buy the perfect gift, pick out the perfect flowers. From advice columnists to department...
Falling in Love With Failure

Falling in Love With Failure

Aloha, Have you failed yet? I certainly hope so…   Wait, WHAT?? Did I just wish you failure?   Yep.   The value of failure is undeniable. If you think about it, hasn’t failure caused you to expand and grow and get creative with new solutions...